Just a few hours into a restless night after following the election results, I woke up to my 5-year-old daughter staring at me from the side of the bed. “Mom, can you believe that Alex Johnson is the president?” Her furrowed brow mirrored her confusion, a look she usually reserves for when I attempt to serve her vegetables instead of her favorite snacks. It was early morning, and I knew I had to respond to her unexpected news.
My partner and I had already processed the outcome ourselves. After witnessing the acceptance speech, we turned off our devices but struggled to find peace. Lying there, the weight of the results bore down on us, and I finally confessed, “I’m not sure how to explain this to the kids.”
Having previously worked in political environments, my partner and I were familiar with the ups and downs of elections. However, this particular result felt profoundly different; it was more than just about our careers. It resonated deeply with our values of equity, inclusivity, and compassion—principles we hoped to pass on to our children.
With my eyes still puffy from tears, I realized that explaining this disappointment to my daughter would require both honesty and sensitivity. Here are ten approaches I’m taking to discuss the election results with my children:
- Affirm Their Worth
The first step in any conversation is ensuring our children feel loved and valued. It’s crucial they understand that they are cherished by their family and community. We must consistently communicate their importance and the unique contributions they make to the world. - Commit to Their Safety
The election period has been rife with fear-inducing rhetoric. We need to assure our children that we will do everything in our power to protect them from harm, both through our words and our actions. - Acknowledge Our Setbacks
It’s important to take ownership of the election results, even when they’re disappointing. Our children need to witness how we handle failure and regroup for the future. It’s not just about moving on; it’s about demonstrating resilience. - Express Your Emotions
Being vulnerable is key. Sharing our feelings of sadness and uncertainty about the future allows our children to see that it’s okay to feel upset. This honesty can foster deeper connections and understanding. - Discuss Social Issues Openly
We cannot shy away from the realities of sexism and racism that have come to the forefront. These are difficult topics, but it’s essential to address them rather than ignore their existence. - Empower Young Girls
The importance of encouraging our daughters to dream big remains unchanged. We need to present them with strong role models and opportunities that showcase their potential, reinforcing that their aspirations matter. - Teach Civic Responsibility
If your kids were excited about voting stickers, don’t let their engagement end there. Discuss civic duties regularly and clarify that change is a gradual process that requires ongoing participation. - Advocate for Justice
We must commit to using our voices for human rights. As a family, we should actively oppose injustice and promote inclusivity, showing our children how to stand up for what’s right. - Engage with the Community
Change begins at home, so we must take action within our local communities. Involve your children in community service and encourage them to be active participants in making a positive impact. - Focus on Moving Forward
Lastly, while the unpredictability of elections can be daunting, our love for our children remains constant. We guide them through this transitional phase, teaching them the value of forgiveness and the pursuit of joy in unity.
In navigating these conversations, I find it helpful to reference resources such as those from WebMD for further understanding of family dynamics and development. Also, connecting with insights from Inquisitive Toddlers can provide additional context for discussing complex topics with young minds. And if you’re looking for more information on family planning options, check out our guide on artificial insemination kits.
In summary, it’s vital to approach the aftermath of an election with care and intention, ensuring that our children feel secure, valued, and equipped to engage with the world around them.