Pregnancy is typically a time of joy, filled with excitement and anticipation for the arrival of a new family member. However, when a woman is expecting her third son, the reactions from those around her can sometimes be less than supportive. As I navigate this journey, I find it puzzling that some people seem to view the news of another boy as a reason for sympathy rather than celebration. Here are ten comments that I wish people would steer clear of when discussing my pregnancy:
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Oh, that’s alright, dear.
Thanks for the reassuring tone, but I assure you, there’s nothing to forgive. I’m genuinely thrilled about having another son, so let’s drop the condescension, okay? -
Don’t worry, the next one might be a girl!
Worry? Not in the slightest. This isn’t a game of chance—we’re not banking on a girl in the future. I appreciate your concern, but let’s focus on the joy of this baby instead. -
Were you hoping for a girl?
Not at all. It’s a personal matter, and quite frankly, how does one even “try” for a girl? Seems like an odd notion to me. -
Sons always love their mothers!
That’s comforting to hear, but let’s hope all children—regardless of gender—love their parents equally. -
You’ll be the queen of your castle!
While that sounds appealing, my worth as a mother doesn’t hinge on the gender of my children. I’d be the queen either way, and I’m not raising them just to serve me! -
You should really try for a girl!
I don’t have to ‘try’ for anything. This isn’t just about gender; it’s about bringing a new life into our family. -
Moms of boys are something special!
Special how, exactly? I appreciate the sentiment, but I already feel valued as a mother without needing a label. -
At least they can share clothes!
Phew! What a relief! If only that was the primary reason for having a third child. There are far more significant considerations at play here. -
Three boys is going to be quite a handful!
Really? Thanks for the insight! I can only imagine that any combination of children would keep a parent busy. -
You can always look forward to granddaughters!
I can indeed. However, I’d rather focus on enjoying the chaotic but beautiful years I have with my sons than dwell on future possibilities.
Let me clarify: I’m overjoyed to welcome another son into our family. He is as cherished as my first two, and any assumptions about my feelings toward this pregnancy are misguided. I simply wish for the support and happiness of those around me during this exciting time.
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In summary, it’s essential to approach conversations about pregnancy—especially in the case of multiple children—without preconceived notions about gender. Embracing the joy of new life is what truly matters.