At 26, I feel as though my twenties have been largely defined by the experience of pregnancy. Here I am, approaching the 29th week of my third pregnancy, and I find myself pondering why I keep choosing this path. I’m not one to seek discomfort, so what draws me back? The answer is clear: my love for being pregnant rivals my love for babies.
While I’m not the easiest person to be pregnant, often voicing my complaints about the various discomforts, there exists a wondrous magic beneath the surface of heartburn and weight gain that keeps me coming back. Here are ten reasons why I adore this unique journey:
- The Kicks: There’s nothing quite like the sensation of tiny limbs dancing across my rounded belly. It’s exhilarating! I often feel the urge to pull strangers from their cars at stoplights to share my joy. Each movement serves as a gentle reminder that, for these nine months, I am never alone. This connection will forever bind my heart to my child.
- Being Pampered: I’m not ashamed to admit it. I relish being catered to. From strangers holding doors open to friends offering a helping hand, I feel enveloped in a caring community. It’s as if I’ve joined an exclusive club where I’m not helpless, just deserving of kindness.
- Deedles: This term is a cherished part of our nightly routine. After the kids have settled down, I’ll ask my husband for some “deedles,” and he gently tickles my back until I drift off to sleep. No professional massage can compare to the comfort of this simple act.
- Creative Expression: I thrive on creativity and the process of bringing something into existence. Pregnancy embodies this concept beautifully; it’s the ultimate expression of creation.
- Gastronomic Indulgence: My love for food intensifies during pregnancy. I can savor the same craving for days on end, and each bite fills me with a profound satisfaction that nourishes my soul.
- A License to Complain: While I try to keep it in check, I appreciate having the opportunity to vent. After a tiring day filled with aches and emotions, if I need to shed a few tears over my meal, I won’t hold back.
- Feeling Beautiful: It’s not about physical appearance; it’s more about how I feel inside. There’s something inherently beautiful about nurturing new life, and that feeling radiates from within.
- The Joy of Anticipation: Though I struggle with waiting, I cherish the challenge of savoring each moment. These fleeting weeks are precious, and I remind myself to embrace the chaos and joy they bring.
- A Surge of Confidence: Normally reserved, pregnancy empowers me to take on the world. I can tackle challenges head-on or simply enjoy a well-deserved nap, feeling unstoppable in either choice.
- Witnessing Sibling Bonds: I adore watching my children develop their relationship as they prepare to welcome a new sibling. My eldest eagerly asks, “When will the baby arrive?” while my youngest hilariously attempts to “feed” their brother through my belly button. It’s a heartwarming experience witnessing their love grow.
Pregnancy is undeniably demanding and complex, yet when I reflect on these ten aspects, I wouldn’t trade this experience for anything else.
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In summary, while the journey of pregnancy comes with its challenges, the joys and experiences it brings are irreplaceable. Embrace the journey and find delight in every moment.