I keep a notebook dedicated to “Wisdom I Want to Share with My Kids.” It serves as a safety net for those moments when life catches me off guard. It’s a candid collection where I express thoughts and feelings I might not have the courage to voice in person. My goal is for my children to understand who I truly am—not just as their provider but as a person with a unique story, filled with imperfections and insights.
Although they won’t be reading this for some time, I’d like to share a few key thoughts with you.
- When you get into a car in a busy parking lot, put the car in reverse and start moving. Don’t waste time scrolling on your phone. Someone else is waiting for that space.
- Losing your temper will always lead to regret. Anger is a natural feeling, and some situations warrant it. However, it’s crucial to manage your emotions. Express your anger only when you can do so calmly and rationally.
- If you can’t afford to tip the valet, it’s better to find your own parking spot.
- If something feels off or makes you uncomfortable, it probably is. Trust your instincts; they’re there to guide you. Don’t overthink your decisions.
- I’ve spent too many moments wishing I hadn’t said certain things out of anger. I hope you experience less of that than I have—not because you’re devoid of remorse, but because you choose kindness, which is what I truly wish for you. Kindness is the essence of a fulfilling life.
- From the moment your mother shared the news of your existence, I loved you deeply. Yet, there were times I felt overwhelmed. Just being honest.
- When your waiter is speaking to you, make sure to look them in the eye. The menu can wait.
- Remember, nothing stays in Vegas except your dignity. So don’t leave it behind.
- Your friends might not always need your advice, but they will appreciate your willingness to listen. It’s okay if you don’t have the perfect response; just be there for them.
- Pursue your education in a city far from home. Your roots will always be there, but discovering another place will enrich your life. Savor its culture, enjoy its cuisine, and embrace the adventure of getting lost in its streets—and maybe even falling for someone who calls that city home.
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In summary, the lessons I hope to impart to my children revolve around kindness, self-awareness, and personal growth. These principles will guide them to lead fulfilling lives.