If you could peek into my uterus, it would likely display a blue theme—possibly even with a beard. Why? Because this little factory exclusively produces boys. Before giving birth to my squad of four sons, I was the quintessential girly girl. I adored makeup, fancy shoes, and fruity cocktails over whiskey. The thought of breaking a nail or encountering bugs was simply unacceptable.
However, becoming a mother to boys—whether one or many—transforms you in unexpected ways. While you don’t have to relinquish your feminine flair (in fact, it’s more important than ever to hold onto it), parenting boys introduces unique challenges that require some adjustment. So, if you’re expecting a baby boy, know someone who is, or have a young son who’s still more baby than boy, here’s a list of vital tips for navigating the world of boyhood.
1. Embrace Bath Time
Forget tranquil candle-lit baths for yourself. When you have boys, bath time becomes a wet and wild affair! They require frequent baths, and be ready for drenching splashes, a lingering wet-dog scent, and heaps of dirty towels. Once they’re older and showering on their own, you’ll still need to remind them to use soap—unless you want the body wash to vanish as if they’re eating it!
2. Find Humor in Farts
Boys find fart jokes hilarious—it’s a universal truth. If you have a knack for toilet humor, this will be easier for you. Laughing along with them helps lessen stress. Just remind them that there are appropriate times to let one rip, such as not during a quiet moment at church or while dining out.
3. Prepare for Toilet Battles
From the moment I found out I was having a boy, I was determined to teach him proper toilet etiquette—like putting the seat down. Despite my best efforts, I still find myself reminding them to flush, close the lid, and aim properly. Keeping the toilet clean is an uphill battle when you have boys around.
4. Rethink Your Safety Standards
I’m not suggesting you be reckless, but you’ll need to adjust your perception of safety. Boys are naturally rough and tumble. They jump, climb, and explore without fear. Sometimes they even taste things that would make most moms cringe! Just stock up on Band-Aids and let them be kids—your sanity will thank you.
5. Expect Drama
Contrary to popular belief, boys can be just as dramatic as girls. They engage in loud stomping, eye-rolling, and passionate outbursts. Don’t let anyone tell you boys are easier—my sons can create quite the scene over silly matters like video game rankings.
6. Get Ready for Messes
Messes are inevitable. Boys are notorious for tracking in mud, spilling milk, and leaving a trail of chaos behind them. Despite my constant reminders about tidiness, it seems that messes just come with the territory—especially if you have multiple boys.
7. Stock Up on Food
When your little ones are young, they may not eat much, but that changes quickly. One moment they’re picky eaters, and the next, they’re devouring everything in sight. I feel like I’m constantly grocery shopping to keep up with their insatiable appetites!
8. Prepare for Frequent Jeans Replacements
You’ll be astonished at how quickly boys can shred through jeans. Denim is supposed to be durable, yet it often can’t withstand the wear and tear from their active lifestyles. I’ve written countless posts about this very topic!
9. Get Comfortable with Nudity
Boys have a tendency to shed their clothes the moment they enter the house. It’s not uncommon to find them lounging around in just their underwear—or even completely naked.
10. Accept “The Grab”
Boys are going to grab their genitals at every opportunity. It’s a natural behavior that begins from infancy and continues throughout their childhood. You’ll find yourself repeating phrases like “Stop wrapping your penis around your fork” more often than you’d like.
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In summary, being a mom to boys involves embracing messiness, humor, and a bit of chaos while navigating the unique quirks that come with raising little men.